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A.R.M. STANDS FOR "AVOID",
"RESPOND", "MINIMIZE".
Avoidance of a
potential confrontation, life-threatening or otherwise
(a possible mugging, rape, extortion, street fight, etc)
demands location and situational awareness. External awareness of
our surroundings and knowing what is going on around us
will help us anticipate if something untoward is about
to happen (someone hiding in the shadows, a noise in a
dark alley, an unsavory looking character approaching
you) and allow us to 'side-step' it. There is also
an internal awareness. This is
how we carry and feel about ourselves from the inside. If you walk with a
slouch or poor posture that exudes low self confidence, you will become a
prime target for predators.
To Respond is to
defend yourself with verbal and/or physical force when
all else fails and you know that you could possibly be hurt or even killed if you
do not take action or fight back. In times like this, your body will
release chemicals within you to prepare for 'fight' or
'flight'. The sudden influx of adrenaline will cause you to breathe
short breaths, experience tunnel vision, lose cognitive
thought and fine motor skills (like trying to thread a
key through a keyhole). The problem with the adrenal
rush is that it can also cause you to freeze in fear so
much so that
you will not be able to respond properly to a threat or attack. This is where you will learn
simple, easy and effective gross motor movement-type
self defense strikes against the weak points of the
human anatomy that can bring down almost any assailant.
Repetition in training will 'plant' these movements in
your muscle memory so that you will be able to perform
them automatically in life threatening situations.
Verbally assert your demand for the assailant to back
down immediately, failing which, apply these techniques
quickly, powerfully, and without prejudice, in order to
end the altercation within the shortest time possible.
Minimize injury to yourself by moving away
once you have responded appropriately and reasonably to
your attacker. As we have spoken earlier about
awareness, being aware also plays a part in this
instance, whereby prior to, or at the time of
provocation, we will already have anticipated a plan of
escape by mentally capturing 'snapshots' of possible
escape routes, locating objects in and around us which
can be used as weapons, and just basically being 'in
tune' with our present environment and situation. Once
you have temporarily diffused the situation (either by
physical contact or verbal persuasion), extricated
yourself immediately by running to the nearest public place
or police station when you can get help. In this aspect,
the most important thing to do is to move away to safety
as soon as possible in order to minimize danger to
yourself or your loved ones. |